Isn't it possible
to be both romantic and kinky? You can still love and respect someone and indulge in some rather depraved activities, so long as there's mutual consent and enjoyment.
(LickOutTheJamsMotherfuckers!, Fri 23 Oct 2009, 11:27, 1 reply)

I dunno...

It's the levels os depravity I suppose.

A harmless spank or a 'bit of the rough stuff' can be fun, but I'd find it difficult smacking a girl I loved in the mouth, whipping or strangling her to within an inch of her life.

If I cared that much and she was into that I'd be more inclined to get her help or therapy.
(Mr Twisty Cheeky The worst kept secret in B3ta..., Fri 23 Oct 2009, 12:29, closed)

I think
that's where I draw the line with kinks, when it gets to the point that things are humiliating or show a fundamental lack of respect for the other person. But half the stuff in the QOTW hasn't been about that, it's just been about dressing up weird, and having sex in odd places.
(LickOutTheJamsMotherfuckers!, Fri 23 Oct 2009, 13:22, closed)

'sex in odd places'
what like up the arse?. Sorry,couldnt resist!!!

fine post and click btw
(The Magic Number is neither magic nor a number, Fri 23 Oct 2009, 13:25, closed)

I was
really tempted to make that pun, but decided not to, thinking it might undermine my point.

But sure, go right ahead, just mock my earnest outpouring.
(LickOutTheJamsMotherfuckers!, Fri 23 Oct 2009, 13:53, closed)