Another one where "I like this" is just entirely wrong, but I'm clicking anyway.
You mustn't blame yourself... maybe you'd have given him the bollocking and not noticed anything when he still didn't remember the number to call you. Who can say?

I hope you manage to forgive yourself, no-one's perfect.
(Professor Kenny Martin Hmm? What?, Tue 4 Aug 2009, 21:24, 1 reply)

Agreed, in all respects.
'Like' is entirely the wrong word in these circumstances.


And, really, don't blame yourself.

Ok, so you didn't notice a couple of signs which, lets face it, were hardly glaring but you did notice when it started to get worse and you were there for him as he had to deal with everything.
It's best not to dwell on such negative matters but when you feel like you're to blame for any of this, just think about how your being there for him helped him to fight it all and how, had you not been there, much worse it could've been...
(Pope Jamiroquai III, Tue 4 Aug 2009, 21:44, closed)