Some gay men ARE on the hunt for sex 24/7
So are lots of straight men though - it's a subset of being male, not a subset of homosexuality.

So, like straight women and gay men worked out millennia ago, straight men just have to learn that they're allowed to say no to a proposition AND feel a bit flattered at the same time. It isn't automatically an excuse for anger, violence, disgust, etc. It's just a pass, that's all.

I'm straight and I learned this early on (largely due to my much-loved and entirely decent gay uncle, now no longer with us, unfortunately). It really isn't very tricky. Just say "No, thank you." Both clauses are required.
( shinyshinyscalp less a man, more a way of life, Sun 4 Apr 2010, 13:56, Reply)