meh,
You can think what you like, just be aware that instantly jumping on the defensive every time someone tries to add their perspective to a situation, marks you out as a self absorbed, arrogant prick, who is either always right, or a victim.
( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Mon 6 Aug 2012, 9:30, 1 reply)

I can and I do
Perhaps if you had simply asked 'is it possible things you did might have been a contributing factor' you might have gotten a different response compared to the one you did. Trying to paint this as merely you offering an alternate perspective is a hell of a stretch though.

Like I said, your problem, not mine.
(the_leander, Mon 6 Aug 2012, 10:25, closed)

LAST WORD!

( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Mon 6 Aug 2012, 10:27, closed)

You don't need to be annoying or anything else to be bullied as a kid
Just to be slightly different in some way to the percieved norm. I was bullied as a kid because i liked to read books and it took the form of mental and physical abuse. I didn't do anything to encourage the bullying but it happened anyway. Kids are cruel and just saying that bullying can be stopped by the victim changing their behaviour is demonstrating a breath taking lack of understanding of the issue.
(andythepieman Is surfing the waves of indifference on, Mon 6 Aug 2012, 10:56, closed)

i bet you were fat too.
I never said bullying would magically have stopped had he been more likeable, merely that its possible that he could have made it worse for himself by being such a prick.
( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Mon 6 Aug 2012, 11:18, closed)

Some amazing revisionism you got there.
(the_leander, Mon 6 Aug 2012, 11:34, closed)

I think you'll find
that yes you did.
(andythepieman Is surfing the waves of indifference on, Tue 7 Aug 2012, 9:46, closed)