this is definitely full of trues
However, the best response is "I love you just the way you are". That way, it makes them feel better, less insecure and more likely to do something about it themselves, rather than just being a miserable old cow with a bad haircut and a fat arse.
( sandettie light vessel automatic New Twitter - @bollocksreally, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 18:11, 1 reply)

very true
I did get in trouble for not really paying attention so I just said Yes you are maybe exercising might help. That isn't a good thing to say ^^.
(Just Me being probed by aliens since, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 18:12, closed)

The thing is, it is a god thing to say
they just don't realise it.

If you're fat and you're unhappy about it then the logical next step is to try to address it by losing weight, and so advice and/or encouragement in this endeavor should be welcomed, maybe along with some sympathy and recognition that it's not an easy task in many cases.

If you're fat, unhappy, not trying to lose weight and complaining about it then you're an idiot and the last thing you need or deserve is someone telling you you're thin.
( greedyostrich Cheese is evil! Cheddar is VOODOO!, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 18:45, closed)

Aye!
I am chubby too and i dont broadcast it in the sense of saying omg im so fat coz well that's inviting trouble. Just fucking walk or eat less haha which is what i be doing now :D
(Just Me being probed by aliens since, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 18:48, closed)

Good stuff
and I hope/am sure you'll feel all the better for it.
( greedyostrich Cheese is evil! Cheddar is VOODOO!, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 18:50, closed)

I do!
Thanks:)
(Just Me being probed by aliens since, Sat 2 Jan 2010, 18:52, closed)