KMWIP
Hello KMWIP,

I am a male and was with my ex partner for 2 years. In this time, she stripped me of all my self confidence, used me for money, cheated on my numerous times and was incredibly volatile..so much so that she lashed out at me (I have been strangled in my sleep and she once hit me with an iron) time and time again. It wasn't until one fateful night that I confessed to myself that I was in an abusive relationship.

One thing people have to remember, is that b3ta QOTW answers can be 100% made up, or a minor fabrication of the truth, or even a real story. You can not come onto a site like this and try to preach to someone else and then accuse them of something as extreme as rape.

I have tried my utmost to keep my sense of humor - I laugh at jokes about babies, people of a different race and jokes which are in bad taste/are not PC.

Even though I did not get revenge on my ex, I sometimes wish I did just to feel a little bit better about the situation. Your posts always bring a smile to my face - and I for one can tell the difference between something jovial and something which was intended to permanantly damage another in a sadistic way for self amusement.

So, this was a long winded little note to say that not all of us who have had bad experiences think you are a cunt, or twisted, or whatever else people have called you. I'd keep your chin up and stand your ground - it was a prank..and best of all, it's one for all the lads who have been walked all over!!
( mango_charlie, Mon 29 Sep 2008, 18:54, Reply)