Thoughts
I have a pretty clear opinion of what KMWIP did but I'll leave it to the end to avoid biasing people for/against the following thoughts:

KMWIP, your ex was (and probably still is) a cunt, no question. I've been cheated on in some pretty unpleasant circumstances and I know that it hurts, not just psychologically: sometimes you're in so much emotional pain that it actually physically hurts. However, you do get over these things.

Importantly, *your ex didn't do what she did in order to hurt you.* She did it because she's an idiotic bitch with more libido than sense and, if your relationship was worth anything, she would regret it pretty quickly (if not, then you're clearly better off without her). Her primary thought was to get laid, not to cause you pain (albeit that would have been a predictable outcome). You on the other hand deliberately set out to cause her pain and derived pleasure from her suffering. That, as far as I can see, makes you a sadistic piece of scum.

People cope with far worse emotional pain than this all the time, and they manage to do so without inflicting physical sexual pain on people. Your utter failure to man up and deal with it, without resorting to such sadism, is pretty sickening (as was her cheating). What you did was not a prank (burning all her underwear would have been a prank), and I think you're pretty lucky to have avoided legal consequences.

Please note that this is not due to gender bias, I think that the female poster who broke a bloke's leg in 2 places because he cheated on her should have spent quite some time in jail.

So in summary, you're a cunt (although not a rapist) KMWIP.
(flimflam_machine, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 10:57, 1 reply)

^^ this
yes.
( rofl harris, Tue 30 Sep 2008, 15:51, closed)