Teenage Crushes - Part Two
Freddie Woo writes: I've still got weird feelings for a well-known female TV presenter from the 1980s. I'm now in my forties, work in the same building as her and she follows me on a number of social networking sites. And now, she knows about it.
Tell us about the teenage crushes that still make you go wobbly.
( , Thu 5 Nov 2009, 11:04)
Freddie Woo writes: I've still got weird feelings for a well-known female TV presenter from the 1980s. I'm now in my forties, work in the same building as her and she follows me on a number of social networking sites. And now, she knows about it.
Tell us about the teenage crushes that still make you go wobbly.
( , Thu 5 Nov 2009, 11:04)
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You're procrastinating
It's great that you've decided to confront her about this, but you're stalling by invoking this whole 'once I get back' chestnut. I've missed enough boats in my life to know a procrastinator when I see one.
I think your decision to do this face to face is spot on. So if you're serious, and if this could lead to something very long term (and it sounds that way), get yourself a ticket and get to her. It's true I have zero idea what sort of distances are involved, but frankly, it's only money, and I don't say that because I've got a lot of the stuff (far from it).
If you really can't reach her earlier, fair enough. But don't allow 'when I get back' to become a mask for 'when I get back after some unforeseen circumstance will have excused me from confronting her'.
Best of luck to you.
( , Wed 11 Nov 2009, 17:56, Reply)
It's great that you've decided to confront her about this, but you're stalling by invoking this whole 'once I get back' chestnut. I've missed enough boats in my life to know a procrastinator when I see one.
I think your decision to do this face to face is spot on. So if you're serious, and if this could lead to something very long term (and it sounds that way), get yourself a ticket and get to her. It's true I have zero idea what sort of distances are involved, but frankly, it's only money, and I don't say that because I've got a lot of the stuff (far from it).
If you really can't reach her earlier, fair enough. But don't allow 'when I get back' to become a mask for 'when I get back after some unforeseen circumstance will have excused me from confronting her'.
Best of luck to you.
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