you sound SO much like my buddy Tim.
He totally hates fags,he says they are the reason that gay men are beat up and dissed.
He is an awsome man,been my best friend for almost 20 years.Its sad that some hate others for who they choose to love,I dont get the prejudice against gays.
You would not believe how many people come up to me and ask me if I am worried he will mollest my son,I tell them he is gay not a priest lol, took years for my husband to feel comfortable around him. To me,he is my beloved friend, upside is the is the only male that I know that loves to go shoe shopping with me!
(zhinka If you don't rescue,don't breed!, Fri 2 Apr 2010, 20:57, 1 reply)

It won't change anytime soon...
"took years for my husband to feel comfortable around him"

Did he just think that he would sudfdenly come on to him and try and convert your husband and get him into bed?

This is what I find most frustrating, that there is a presumption that all gay men are on the hunt for cock 24/7. We are not! Not at all dissing your husband, as I have friends and family that were the same with me, it's kind of pathetic really to think you know someone for many years or your entire life, come out, and then the presume if you are left alone with them, we will try and get you into bed! ha ha ha
(Eeevil You are losers, Sat 3 Apr 2010, 2:16, closed)

Some gay men ARE on the hunt for sex 24/7
So are lots of straight men though - it's a subset of being male, not a subset of homosexuality.

So, like straight women and gay men worked out millennia ago, straight men just have to learn that they're allowed to say no to a proposition AND feel a bit flattered at the same time. It isn't automatically an excuse for anger, violence, disgust, etc. It's just a pass, that's all.

I'm straight and I learned this early on (largely due to my much-loved and entirely decent gay uncle, now no longer with us, unfortunately). It really isn't very tricky. Just say "No, thank you." Both clauses are required.
( shinyshinyscalp less a man, more a way of life, Sun 4 Apr 2010, 13:56, closed)